Why Am I Craving Cigarettes Three Months After I Quit Smoking?
Question: Why Am I Craving Cigarettes Three Months After I Quit Smoking?
I quit smoking cold turkey almost three months ago. I’ve had my ups and downs in that time, but feel like I’ve been making progress overall. However, in the last week or so, I’ve been thinking about smoking so much and it’s getting worse. I know the nicotine is long gone from my body, but I swear I’m having cravings for a cigarette that feel just like nicotine withdrawal. Why is this happening to me, and will I always feel this way?
Answer: I’m sorry to hear that you’re feeling so badly, however, from what you’re describing, everything you’re feeling is within the “normal” range of what can be expected as we recover from nicotine addiction.
Three Months Smoke-Free
Basically, it defines three tricky time periods during the first year of cessation that a lot of folks stumble over – three days, three weeks, and three months.
The Icky Threes
At the three-month mark, people often experience somewhat of a letdown – a case of the blahs, so to speak. The rush, or excitement of quitting has worn off, but we haven’t yet completed the healing process from nicotine addiction. We’re still thinking about smoking, and most of us are still feeling the urge to smoke now and then. It can leave a person feeling edgy and sad. We wonder if we’ll always be doomed to feel this way.
Where Those Cravings to Smoke Are Coming From
It’s not surprising that you’re experiencing cravings to smoke that remind you of nicotine withdrawal. Our minds have a powerful influence over our bodies, and a strong focus on thoughts of smoking can bring on some very real physical responses – things like tension in the throat, neck and stomach, as well as jumpy nerves and headaches.
It is important to consciously acknowledge to yourself that the origin of your discomforts is in your thoughts, and that nicotine is not playing a part in this scenario. Taking stock of what is behind your urge to smoke is a first step in regaining control over errant thoughts that can lead to trouble.
And, like you did during the first days of smoking cessation, use distraction as a tool to help you change your mindset as well:
5 Minute Craving Busters
The good news is that this is a phase in the recovery process that almost everyone goes through. Some have the discomforts you’re feeling at two months, some at four, and some, not at all. But most of us do go through some form of this “letdown.” The rest of the good news is that this really is a phase – meaning it will pass…as long as you don’t smoke.
Pamper, Pamper, Pamper
Managing the bumpy days that are bound to come and go during the first several months of cessation will be much easier when your batteries are fully charged. Do things that relax and rejuvenate you, and get enough sleep while you’re at it. Proper nutrition (and plenty of water) will help ease your discomforts as well. Get some daily exercise too, even if only a short walk or two.
Caring for Yourself When Quitting Tobacco
Sometimes the best thing we can do is get out of our own way! If you’re spiraling downward, take it as a cue to treat yourself with kid gloves – spoil yourself a little. Don’t think of it as being selfish – think of it as good therapy, because that’s just what it is.
Time and Patience: Two Great Quit Buddies
I always tell people to dedicate all of the first year to healing from this addiction. All of it. That’s not to say you’ll feel terrible for the entire year, but it does take that long to work your way through the many activities in your daily life that you associate with smoking on one level or another.
Think of time and patience (with self, mostly) as two of your best quit buddies, because they absolutely are. If you can relax and let time pass, it will help you heal. There’s a lot of truth in the old adage that time heals all. Time really is a wonderful tool for changing our lives – as long as we can be patient enough to let it do its work.
So, while I know you’re feeling raw and unhappy right now, please know that all of your discomforts will pass if you just keep applying yourself to the task at hand one simple day at a time. Take comfort in the fact that you are not the only person who has struggled at this point in the cessation process. In fact, I know several long-term quitters who kicked and fought their way through most of the first year, sure they’d never get free. But they did, and you will too, as long as you stick with it and don’t smoke.
As Winston Churchill said so wisely:
“If you’re going through hell, keep going.”
The only way out is through when it comes to healing from this addiction.
The Power of Support
And don’t fear the ups and downs that come with quitting smoking. Cravings to smoke are not signs of impending failure, they are signs that you are healing from both the physical addiction you have to nicotine, and the psychological associations you have with smoking as well.
Keep your eye on the prize and do the work it takes to get the monkey that nicotine addiction is off of your back. The rewards are outstanding and you’ll love the person you become without the chains of this killer habit weighing you down.
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